Dugo_Writings

Sometimes, very minute incidents can shake your thoughts. They question the very existence of each and every value you have always believed in—and one such day was mine. Today, as I travelled from my home to my workplace, I encountered many things that I had missed every other time I travelled this route. But today, those very things woke me up from a deep sleep. I was riding my bike, and when I reached Hunsur—my childhood treasure box—I was shocked and disheartened by the mere sight of a place I once walked with joy. Yes, in the name of development, that place has lost its entire row of trees, which was the highlight of that road. It was once lush green, and the air was filled with a pinch of eucalyptus aroma. The road was beautifully lined with giant nilgiri trees, rain trees, and teak. Now, it is all gone. The road and the so-called developing structures stand alone, crying out loud under the scorching heat, stripped of shade and companionship. Yes, I do agree with the notion of...

I recently came across a trend on Instagram about the evolution of individuals from 2016 to 2026, or posts highlighting moments from 2016 that made people proud. It truly is an excellent way to introspect and reflect on ourselves. We get so busy with our lives and work that we hardly find time to pause and review our journey. We just keep moving forward. For me too, this trend made me look back at my memories from 2016 — and it felt surreal. Let me share a piece of my story. 2016. The first half of the year was all about my pre-board and board examinations for my 1st PU, along with intensive preparation for my +2 classes, which were supposed to begin in the second half. Luckily, I didn’t join any coaching institute; I prepared at home. That phase was a banger for me! It was also our last year in my second most favourite home on this planet — JNV Mysuru . A place where I lived life without worries or tension. I can talk endlessly about this heaven, but today, it’s all about 2016 — so I...

How does it feel when a small truth ruins the longest-lasting friendship you ever had? How do you adapt to new conditions all of a sudden? How do you react when you accidentally face each other in the future at some random events? How can you be so okay with being a total stranger after having such a genuine bond? Is that easy? Is it really not hurtful? These questions are constantly exhausting me with overthinking for answers! Actually, I am not that kind of girl who would be so overwhelmed with someone’s exit from my life. But this is haunting me because there were no fights, quarrels, disappointments, or any kind of arguments. It was just a single fact I shared that created this gap. I just can’t stop thinking about that. I unknowingly became so close to one person, not with any kind of intention. We conversed a lot and understood each other well—to the extent that I even considered him my best friend, which is super rare in my case. But now, due to one statement, everything is gone...

The year 2025 has been incredibly special to me in so many ways. It took me to new horizons of life , where I challenged myself at every step. I feel like I’ve been upgraded to a newer version of myself —both in my career and personal life . I am deeply grateful to this year for being my best teacher . It was truly about exploring my own potential and interests . The year began with independence , along with the struggles of being a newcomer to a new town—Madikeri . I was completely new to living alone and to the place itself. The very thought of managing household responsibilities along with work all by myself was scary at first. But at the same time, I was equally excited about growing as an independent woman . I even started cooking for myself , which is honestly the biggest highlight of the year !! My mother visited me for a week this year, and that brought me immense comfort after a longgg gap . I learned many new aspects related to my work. I upskilled myself in areas like t...

Today, I want to share a short and heart-touching story. My cousin is very fond of rearing pets and animals. He has an Indian breed dog, a Golden Retriever named Sara, hens, and cattle—one Indian breed and two hybrids. Earlier, he also had a cage for birds, but now these are the animals he keeps. All of them are usually tied up in the backyard. Even Sara isn’t left free inside the house, as she is extremely inquisitive and often ends up creating a mess. A few days ago, my cousin started letting the Indian breed dog roam freely on the streets, as he was very friendly with everyone. Unfortunately, one day a man crossed his path and began teasing him. Infuriated by the man’s actions, the dog leapt at him and gave a very minor bite. The man came screaming to my cousin with a complaint. Frightened by the dog’s behavior and worried that he might hurt children playing on the street, my cousin took a very difficult decision. He locked the dog up, covered his eyes, took him to a faraway place...

It really stings when our own champions—who play for and represent our nation, who make us proud to be Indians—are not treated with the respect they deserve on bigger stages. There are many sports and games that haven’t received the fame or recognition that cricket, football, or basketball enjoy. Yet, there are athletes who struggle relentlessly just to represent our nation on the world stage, dreaming of making our flag fly high. Unfortunately, we don’t treat all of them equally. They are all athletes, right? Then why can't we treat them equally??? One should ask themselves: just because we live in India, is supporting only cricket enough? I agree—I am not perfect, and I don’t judge anyone. I’m in the same boat too. But over the past few days, my perspective has changed. If asked, I might be able to name a few well-known celebrity sportspersons only. But what about the rest—the ones who have received no name or fame despite playing for our nation? It’s truly heartbreaking to see c...

Once a person feels they are being toyed with by someone they genuinely like, it shatters all the trust and the image they had built over a long period. And it’s never just a one-time experience — each similar moment gets stored inside them, layer by layer. They may not be sure whether it’s only their perception or if it’s truly happening, but the impact is harsh, especially when it comes from the least expected person. No one deserves to be treated that way. Situations might change, circumstances might be different, and reactions may vary — but the person remains the same, right? And that’s what makes it even harder. It becomes incredibly difficult to look at someone who suddenly feels completely different from who they once appeared to be. The feeling of being used — for attention, for distraction, for convenience — is one of the worst. Maybe things were genuine at the beginning, but everything changes the moment someone becomes a choice instead of a priority. Where did that earlier ...

Is work a burden? A baggage? Why aren’t we happy to work? Is it the same for everyone—or is it just me? Is it the process that makes it unenjoyable, or is it the environment? Or maybe it’s the people who make it worse? All these factors definitely affect our ability to work. If we’re not happy doing what we do, then what’s the point? Very often, I feel like I might be stuck in the wrong place. But then there are days when I genuinely enjoy my work. I think what I truly need is a team that’s as enthusiastic and passionate as I am. Because without passion or interest, it’s impossible to produce meaningful outcomes. Even a bit of acknowledgement or a small appreciation at work can boost our energy to a completely different level. But I don’t understand why some people act like appreciating someone’s efforts is a crime. And honestly, it’s frustrating when, despite genuine team effort and struggle, all we receive are taunts, yelling, and unnecessary drama over small unfinished tasks. Wh...

The excitement is absolutely bubbling over, and it's all because my incredible senior friend is getting married !  Even though she wasn't a classmate, the bond we share is something truly special. I'd secretly known about her soulmate for ages, and my heart was always happy for her, even before she openly shared her relationship status. It's funny how life works. She has a super close best friend from her own batch, yet somehow, I've managed to carve out my own little space between them. And it's all because I genuinely adore them both! It's hard to believe that once upon a time, I had a serious issue with one of them and a big misunderstanding with the other. But now, we're closer than ever, and I often wonder how our paths crossed and led us to this beautiful point. Our journey started with a strong connection, then navigated through misunderstandings, fights, and even a touch of jealousy. But all of that eventually transformed into selfless care, unwa...

Very tired of carrying all the random thoughts in my head! They’re getting bigger and heavier with each passing day. Sometimes it’s the family, sometimes it’s work. Sometimes it’s a social media post, sometimes it’s my personal choices. Everything feels like it’s stuck on repeat—making me think over and over again and exhausting me completely. It was the same chaos this evening after work. No plans for the next day, the next hour, or even the next minute. Not sure about my next meal either. Just the same random thoughts. I reached my comfort space—no ears around to listen to my endless rants, no comforting words from anyone. Just me and my bed, which never fails to hug me and relax me with a soft pillow for my heavy head. And just then, I received a call from someone I hadn’t spoken to in months. Maybe the timing was right, because I just smiled seeing the name on the screen. We talked and talked for hours, not about anything serious happening in the world—just about all the naught...

Have you ever felt left out? Or felt alone? These feelings often drive us toward loneliness. But it’s not really anyone else’s fault — it’s our own, when we start expecting others to pay attention to us, make us feel valid, or constantly acknowledge our existence. But really? Do we need that validation every day? No, my dear! The world doesn’t work that way. It’s your puzzle — and you have to solve it yourself. Some people might lend a helping hand, but don’t expect it to last forever. Everyone has their own hurdles to cross. You might be a part of their journey, but not the whole of it. So stop seeking validation from others and start focusing on your own growth. It’s high time to level up! Get ready to walk through the maze of struggles and envision yourself holding the trophy. Look after yourself, set goals, celebrate even the tiniest achievements, reward your hard work, and enjoy being you ! It’s not that I’ve already mastered this — I’m learning too. I need to wake up from my dre...

Today, I saw a man wearing black glasses, holding a stick in his hand. He wasn’t just standing there — he was listening carefully to everything happening around him. He was completely engrossed in his other senses, compensating for the one he lacked — his eyesight. It struck me how similar many of us are to that man — not in our blindness, but in our lack of vision . We wander through life without clear goals, merely following others as they chase theirs. We fail to create our own path. Harsh, yet real. When we have all the resources, we rarely understand their true importance. And when we finally do, it’s often too late — nothing is left for us to reclaim. As I kept watching that man waiting for his bus, I noticed how people walked past him, yet he never made a single wrong movement. He was perfectly aware, using his other senses with precision and confidence. That made me question myself — my attentiveness, sharpness, and focus — even though all my senses are perfectly fine. I r...