Dugo_Writings

I recently came across a trend on Instagram about the evolution of individuals from 2016 to 2026, or posts highlighting moments from 2016 that made people proud. It truly is an excellent way to introspect and reflect on ourselves. We get so busy with our lives and work that we hardly find time to pause and review our journey. We just keep moving forward. For me too, this trend made me look back at my memories from 2016 — and it felt surreal. Let me share a piece of my story. 2016. The first half of the year was all about my pre-board and board examinations for my 1st PU, along with intensive preparation for my +2 classes, which were supposed to begin in the second half. Luckily, I didn’t join any coaching institute; I prepared at home. That phase was a banger for me! It was also our last year in my second most favourite home on this planet — JNV Mysuru . A place where I lived life without worries or tension. I can talk endlessly about this heaven, but today, it’s all about 2016 — so I...

How does it feel when a small truth ruins the longest-lasting friendship you ever had? How do you adapt to new conditions all of a sudden? How do you react when you accidentally face each other in the future at some random events? How can you be so okay with being a total stranger after having such a genuine bond? Is that easy? Is it really not hurtful? These questions are constantly exhausting me with overthinking for answers! Actually, I am not that kind of girl who would be so overwhelmed with someone’s exit from my life. But this is haunting me because there were no fights, quarrels, disappointments, or any kind of arguments. It was just a single fact I shared that created this gap. I just can’t stop thinking about that. I unknowingly became so close to one person, not with any kind of intention. We conversed a lot and understood each other well—to the extent that I even considered him my best friend, which is super rare in my case. But now, due to one statement, everything is gone...

The year 2025 has been incredibly special to me in so many ways. It took me to new horizons of life , where I challenged myself at every step. I feel like I’ve been upgraded to a newer version of myself —both in my career and personal life . I am deeply grateful to this year for being my best teacher . It was truly about exploring my own potential and interests . The year began with independence , along with the struggles of being a newcomer to a new town—Madikeri . I was completely new to living alone and to the place itself. The very thought of managing household responsibilities along with work all by myself was scary at first. But at the same time, I was equally excited about growing as an independent woman . I even started cooking for myself , which is honestly the biggest highlight of the year !! My mother visited me for a week this year, and that brought me immense comfort after a longgg gap . I learned many new aspects related to my work. I upskilled myself in areas like t...

Once a person feels they are being toyed with by someone they genuinely like, it shatters all the trust and the image they had built over a long period. And it’s never just a one-time experience — each similar moment gets stored inside them, layer by layer. They may not be sure whether it’s only their perception or if it’s truly happening, but the impact is harsh, especially when it comes from the least expected person. No one deserves to be treated that way. Situations might change, circumstances might be different, and reactions may vary — but the person remains the same, right? And that’s what makes it even harder. It becomes incredibly difficult to look at someone who suddenly feels completely different from who they once appeared to be. The feeling of being used — for attention, for distraction, for convenience — is one of the worst. Maybe things were genuine at the beginning, but everything changes the moment someone becomes a choice instead of a priority. Where did that earlier ...

The excitement is absolutely bubbling over, and it's all because my incredible senior friend is getting married !  Even though she wasn't a classmate, the bond we share is something truly special. I'd secretly known about her soulmate for ages, and my heart was always happy for her, even before she openly shared her relationship status. It's funny how life works. She has a super close best friend from her own batch, yet somehow, I've managed to carve out my own little space between them. And it's all because I genuinely adore them both! It's hard to believe that once upon a time, I had a serious issue with one of them and a big misunderstanding with the other. But now, we're closer than ever, and I often wonder how our paths crossed and led us to this beautiful point. Our journey started with a strong connection, then navigated through misunderstandings, fights, and even a touch of jealousy. But all of that eventually transformed into selfless care, unwa...

Is it wrong to prioritize someone over myself? Isn’t it wonderful to idolize my parents and keep them above everything else? I feel endlessly grateful for all that they’ve done for me — for how they’ve cared for me, loved me, and guided me till this day. And yes, I would sacrifice anything for them — and I truly mean it. I’m not writing this to prove that I’m the only one who values parents or to show off. That’s not the point. I’m sharing this because I know there are others like me — people who sometimes feel guilty for not putting their parents first. To those people, I want to say: you’re not alone. We exist. I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember. As a child, I’d make silly excuses to avoid going to relatives’ houses alone — just so I could stay with my mom. I never kept my sister’s mistakes secret because I wanted my mom to trust me completely. I gave up several opportunities just to stay by her side and help her. And when I look back on those memories, I don’t regret t...

Many a time, I wonder why a person can't be there for himself or herself, on their own. Why do they need someone in their life? Is it for the customs? Is it out of compulsion ? Every time, my answer will be a big NO ! Yes, we need fellow beings , be they male or female, to be beside us on our journey. The relationship may differ—for some, it would be a mother, father, sister, brother, friend, or a life partner—but we need a shoulder to lean on whenever we are burdened, a cheering voice to lift us up from the rock bottom, great motivational talks when we are at our lowest, a supporting hand when we feel it's over, and a listening ear to hear all the nonsensical rants every day! At the end, we need someone to walk along. It's not that we can't do it all alone, but it feels good ; it soothes us with the mere feeling of someone being there for us, waiting to see our success. I too had one such friend, who listened to all my rants every day, who kept supporting me throughou...

Yes, everybody's childhood would have been an impactful and memorable journey — so is mine. I spent my primary days in my native place, Hunsur — a very special place that will forever remain in my heart. Even though I spent only a short span of time there, it still feels like home every time I pass by. It takes me back to the old me, walking down the streets after school with a pack of cream biscuits — my favorite back then. The road where my sisters and I walked every day for our sangeetha class, the return walks filled with endless silly conversations, learning how to ride a bicycle, spending time together — I would do anything now to relive those moments when my two sisters were always by my side for everything in life. We used to talk, play, draw, and paint together during the holidays. Every holiday has a special place in my heart. Summer vacations were the best — filled with joy, laughter, and family. I love how we were always there for each other as a family. Even my fri...

I always used to think that trying new stuff would bring out the best in me. Yes, of course it does. But the question is, do I dare to give it a try at least? I was kind of hesitant to try anything new on my own, thinking about what others would say about it. Am I really up for it? What if others don’t like my writings? These were all my fears—not self-doubt, as I had previously shared. Yet, these fears never let me start anything new… until now! Sometimes, I feel really grateful for living alone in a new city, away from all the family chaos, because this life actually gave me a chance to introspect and understand myself much better. It made me bold enough to be decisive all on my own. I call that growth. This feels like a transition period where I’m trying to come out of my comfort zone and try new things every time. And it’s actually FUN!!! I’ve now started writing my blogs, expressing my feelings on Instagram through posts, engaging myself in creating small content for my YouTube...